哥林多前书 7 – CCB & NIV

Chinese Contemporary Bible 2022 (Simplified)

哥林多前书 7:1-40

论婚姻

1关于你们信上所写的事,我认为男人不亲近女人是好的。 2不过,为了避免发生淫乱的事,男婚女嫁也合情合理。 3夫妻双方都应当尽自己的本分,过正常的夫妻生活。 4妻子无权支配自己的身体,丈夫才有权;丈夫也无权支配自己的身体,妻子才有权。 5夫妻不可彼此亏负,除非双方同意,才可以暂时分房,以便专心祈祷。以后,二人仍要恢复正常的夫妻生活,免得撒旦趁你们情不自禁的时候引诱你们。 6我这么说是准许你们这样做,并非命令你们。 7虽然我希望人人都像我一样独身,但每个人从上帝所领受的恩赐不同,有的是这样,有的是那样。

8至于那些未婚的和寡居的,他们若能像我一样就好了。 9但他们若不能自制,就应该结婚,因为与其欲火攻心还不如结婚为好。 10我也吩咐那些已婚的人,其实不是我吩咐,而是主吩咐:妻子不可离开丈夫, 11若是离开了,不可再嫁别人,只能与丈夫复合。丈夫也不可离弃妻子。

12至于其他人,主没有吩咐什么,但我要说,如果某弟兄的妻子不信主,但乐意和他同住,他就不应离弃妻子。 13同样,如果某姊妹的丈夫不信主,但乐意和她同住,她就不应离弃丈夫。 14因为不信的丈夫因妻子而得以圣洁了。同样,不信的妻子也因丈夫而得以圣洁了。否则你们的孩子就是不洁净的,但如今他们是圣洁的。 15如果不信的一方坚持要离开的话,就遂其所愿吧。无论是弟兄或姊妹遇到这样的事情都不必勉强。上帝呼召我们,原是要我们和睦相处。 16你这做妻子的,怎么知道不能救你的丈夫呢?你这做丈夫的,怎么知道不能救你的妻子呢?

17各人应当依照上帝的呼召和安排生活,这是我对各教会的吩咐。 18如果蒙召时已经受了割礼,不必消除割礼;如果蒙召时没有受割礼,也不必去受割礼。 19受不受割礼都算不得什么,最要紧的是遵行上帝的诫命。 20各人应当保持自己蒙召时的身份。 21如果你蒙召时是奴隶,不必因此而烦恼。不过如果你可以获得自由,也不要放过机会。 22因为,蒙召信主时做奴隶的,现在是主的自由人;蒙召时做自由人的,现在是基督的奴仆。 23你们是主用重价买来的,不要做人的奴隶。 24弟兄姊妹,你们要在上帝面前保持自己蒙召时的身份。

25关于独身的问题,主并没有给我任何命令,但我既然深受主恩,成为祂忠心的仆人,就向你们提供一些意见。

26鉴于目前时势艰难,我认为各人最好是安于现状。 27已经有妻子的,就不要设法摆脱她;还没有妻子的,就不要想着结婚。 28男婚女嫁并不是犯罪,只是有家室的人总免不了许多人生的苦恼,我是盼望你们能够免去这些苦恼。

29弟兄们,我告诉你们,时日不多了,从今以后,那些有妻子的,要像没有妻子的; 30哭泣的,要像不哭泣的;欢喜的,要像不欢喜的;置办家业的,要像一无所有的。 31享用世界之物的,不要沉溺其中。因为现今的世界很快就要过去了。

32我希望你们无牵无挂。未婚的男子可以关心主的事,想着怎样讨主的喜悦。 33但已婚的男子关心世上的事,想着如何取悦妻子, 34难免分心。没有丈夫的妇女和处女可以关心主的事,叫身体和心灵都圣洁;但已婚的妇女关心世上的事,想着如何取悦丈夫。 35我这样说是为了你们的好处,不是要束缚你们,而是要鼓励你们做合宜的事,好叫你们殷勤、专心事奉主。

36若有人觉得对待自己的未婚妻有不合宜之处,自己又情欲难禁,就成全他的心愿,让他们结婚吧!这并不算犯罪。 37如果这人心里确信自己没有结婚的需要,又能自己作主,打定主意不结婚,这样做也好。 38所以,与未婚妻完婚是对的,但不结婚则更好。

39丈夫还活着的时候,妻子必须忠于丈夫。如果丈夫去世了,她就自由了,可以再婚,只是要嫁给信主的弟兄。 40然而,照我的意见,她若能不再婚就更有福了。我想自己也是受了上帝的灵感动才说这番话的。

New International Version

1 Corinthians 7:1-40

Concerning Married Life

1Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. 3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 5Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.

8Now to the unmarried7:8 Or widowers and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. 9But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.

12To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.

15But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. 16How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?

Concerning Change of Status

17Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches. 18Was a man already circumcised when he was called? He should not become uncircumcised. Was a man uncircumcised when he was called? He should not be circumcised. 19Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing. Keeping God’s commands is what counts. 20Each person should remain in the situation they were in when God called them.

21Were you a slave when you were called? Don’t let it trouble you—although if you can gain your freedom, do so. 22For the one who was a slave when called to faith in the Lord is the Lord’s freed person; similarly, the one who was free when called is Christ’s slave. 23You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of human beings. 24Brothers and sisters, each person, as responsible to God, should remain in the situation they were in when God called them.

Concerning the Unmarried

25Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy. 26Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for a man to remain as he is. 27Are you pledged to a woman? Do not seek to be released. Are you free from such a commitment? Do not look for a wife. 28But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.

29What I mean, brothers and sisters, is that the time is short. From now on those who have wives should live as if they do not; 30those who mourn, as if they did not; those who are happy, as if they were not; those who buy something, as if it were not theirs to keep; 31those who use the things of the world, as if not engrossed in them. For this world in its present form is passing away.

32I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. 33But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— 34and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. 35I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.

36If anyone is worried that he might not be acting honorably toward the virgin he is engaged to, and if his passions are too strong7:36 Or if she is getting beyond the usual age for marriage and he feels he ought to marry, he should do as he wants. He is not sinning. They should get married. 37But the man who has settled the matter in his own mind, who is under no compulsion but has control over his own will, and who has made up his mind not to marry the virgin—this man also does the right thing. 38So then, he who marries the virgin does right, but he who does not marry her does better.7:36-38 Or 36 If anyone thinks he is not treating his daughter properly, and if she is getting along in years (or if her passions are too strong), and he feels she ought to marry, he should do as he wants. He is not sinning. He should let her get married. 37 But the man who has settled the matter in his own mind, who is under no compulsion but has control over his own will, and who has made up his mind to keep the virgin unmarried—this man also does the right thing. 38 So then, he who gives his virgin in marriage does right, but he who does not give her in marriage does better.

39A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. 40In my judgment, she is happier if she stays as she is—and I think that I too have the Spirit of God.