约押劝告大卫
1有人告诉约押，说：“王在为押沙龙哀伤痛哭。” 2士兵们听说王为押沙龙哀痛，胜利的欢腾顿时变为一片哀愁。 3那一天，众人都静悄悄地回城去，好像败兵一样羞愧万分。 4王仍掩面痛哭：“我儿押沙龙啊！押沙龙！我儿！我儿啊！” 5约押就进到屋里，对王说：“你的仆人们救了你和你妻妾儿女的性命，你今天却使他们感到羞愧。 6仇视你的人，你倒去爱他；那些爱你的人，你反憎恶他们。这表明我王的心中根本没有我们这些将领和部下。我想，要是死去的不是押沙龙而是我们，你就高兴了。 7你现在应该出去安抚士兵们。我凭耶和华起誓，如果你不这样做，今天晚上必无一人再追随你。那将是你一生所遭遇的最大灾难！” 8于是王出去坐在城门口，众人听说后，都来到他面前。这时，跟随押沙龙的以色列人都各自逃回家去了。
大卫返回耶路撒冷
9以色列各支派的人都在纷纷议论：“王曾把我们从众仇敌和非利士人手中救出来。如今他为了躲避押沙龙而逃离本国。 10我们膏立为王的押沙龙已经死了，为什么无人说请王回来呢？”
11大卫王派人去对祭司撒督和亚比亚他说：“你们去问犹大的长老，‘全以色列已经准备迎接王回宫，你们为什么迟迟没有反应？ 12你们是王的弟兄，是王的骨肉，为什么迟迟没有迎接王回宫？’ 13你们也要对亚玛撒说，‘你是我的骨肉，要是我不立你为元帅取代约押，愿上帝重重地处罚我。’” 14王的这番话打动了所有犹大人的心，他们派人去请王和王的臣仆回来。
15王便启程回宫。他来到约旦河时，犹大人都到吉甲来迎接他，要护送他过河。 16来自巴户琳的便雅悯人基拉的儿子示每也急忙跟着犹大人赶来迎接大卫王， 17有一千便雅悯人跟示每一起去迎接大卫王。扫罗的仆人洗巴带着十五个儿子和二十个仆人也赶到约旦河。 18他们渡到河对面帮助王的家眷过河，为王效劳。王正要过河的时候，基拉的儿子示每就俯伏在他面前， 19说：“求我主饶恕仆人的罪过！仆人在我主我王离开耶路撒冷时所犯的罪，求我王不要记在心上。 20仆人自知有罪，所以今天我是整个约瑟家族中第一个迎接我主我王的人。” 21洗鲁雅的儿子亚比筛说：“示每曾经咒骂耶和华所膏立的君王，难道不应该处死他吗？” 22大卫说：“洗鲁雅的儿子，你为何这样说话？你今天是在跟我作对。今天在以色列怎么可以处死人呢？难道我不知道今天我是以色列的王吗？” 23于是大卫起誓不杀示每。
24扫罗的孙子米非波设也来迎接王。从王离开那天，直到大卫平安回来之日，他没有修过脚，没有剃过胡子，也没有洗过衣服。 25他到耶路撒冷来迎接王，王问他：“米非波设，当时你为什么不跟我一起走呢？” 26米非波设答道：“我主我王，我是瘸腿的，我本想预备一头驴骑着与我王同去，是我的仆人洗巴欺骗了我。 27他在我主我王面前毁谤我。我主我王就像上帝的天使，请王定夺。 28我父全家在我主我王面前都是该死的，但王却让我与王同席吃饭，我还能向王要求什么呢？” 29王对他说：“不要再提这事了，我决定让你和洗巴平分土地。” 30米非波设说：“把土地都给他吧，我主我王平安地回来就好了。”
31基列人巴西莱也从罗基琳下来护送王过约旦河，然后送王上路。 32那时，巴西莱已经是八十高龄了。王留在玛哈念的时候，他曾供应王食物，因为他非常富有。 33王对巴西莱说：“你跟我一同回耶路撒冷，我会照顾你。” 34巴西莱说：“我何必跟王一同去耶路撒冷呢？我还能活多久呢？ 35我已经八十岁了，美丑难分，食不知味，乐不辨音，何必为我主我王添麻烦呢？ 36仆人只不过是陪王过约旦河，王何必给我这么大的赏赐呢？ 37请准我回去，我好死在故乡，葬在父母的墓旁。这里有王的仆人金罕，让他跟我主我王一起去。你看怎么好，就怎么对待他吧。” 38王说：“金罕可以跟我去，我会照你的心愿待他。无论你有什么要求，我都会答应你。” 39王和众人过了约旦河以后，就亲吻巴西莱，为他祝福。巴西莱返回了家乡。
40王过河后，来到吉甲，金罕跟随着他。护送王的有犹大的士兵和半数的以色列士兵。 41后来，所有的以色列人来见大卫，说：“为什么我们的弟兄犹大人偷偷地送王、王的家眷和王的部下渡河？” 42犹大人答道：“我们这样做是因为王是我们的亲族。你们为什么生气呢？难道我们吃了王的供应，得了什么礼物吗？” 43以色列人说：“但我们以色列人十个支派和王有十份的情分，你们为什么轻视我们？难道不是我们首先提出要请王回来的吗？”
但犹大人的态度比以色列人还要强硬。
1Someone told Joab, “The king is weeping and mourning for Absalom. He’s filled with sadness because his son has died.” 2The army had won a great battle that day. But their joy turned into sadness. That’s because someone had told the troops, “The king is filled with sorrow because his son is dead.” 3The men came quietly into the city that day. They were like fighting men who are ashamed because they’ve run away from a battle. 4The king covered his face. He cried loudly, “My son Absalom! Absalom, my son, my son!”
5Then Joab went into the king’s house. He said to him, “Today you have made all your men feel ashamed. They have just saved your life. They have saved the lives of your sons and daughters. And they have saved the lives of your wives and concubines. 6You love those who hate you. You hate those who love you. The commanders and their troops don’t mean anything to you. You made that very clear today. I can see that you would be pleased if Absalom were alive today and all of us were dead. 7Now go out there and cheer up your men. If you don’t, you won’t have any of them left with you by sunset. That will be worse for you than all the troubles you have ever had in your whole life. That’s what I promise you in the Lord’s name.”
8So the king got up and took his seat in the entrance of the city gate. His men were told, “The king is sitting in the entrance of the gate.” Then all of them came and stood in front of him.
While all of that was going on, the Israelites had run back to their homes.
David Returns to Jerusalem
9People from all the tribes of Israel began to argue among themselves. They were saying, “The king saved us from the power of our enemies. He saved us from the power of the Philistines. But now he has left the country to escape from Absalom. 10We anointed Absalom to rule over us. But he has died in battle. So why aren’t any of you talking about bringing the king back?”
11King David sent a message to Zadok and Abiathar, the priests. David said, “Speak to the elders of Judah. Tell them I said, ‘News has reached me where I’m staying. People all over Israel are talking about bringing me back to my palace. Why should you be the last to do something about it? 12You are my relatives. You are my own flesh and blood. So why should you be the last to bring me back?’ 13Say to Amasa, ‘Aren’t you my own flesh and blood? You will be the commander of my army for life in place of Joab. If that isn’t true, may God punish me greatly.’ ”
14So the hearts of all the men of Judah were turned toward David. All of them had the same purpose in mind. They sent a message to the king. They said, “We want you to come back. We want all your men to come back too.” 15Then the king returned. He went as far as the Jordan River.
The men of Judah had come to Gilgal to welcome the king back. They had come to bring him across the Jordan. 16Shimei, the son of Gera, was among them. Shimei was from Bahurim in the territory of Benjamin. He hurried down to welcome King David back. 17There were 1,000 people from Benjamin with him. Ziba, the manager of Saul’s house, was with him too. And so were Ziba’s 15 sons and 20 servants. All of them rushed down to the Jordan River. That’s where the king was. 18They went across at the place where people usually cross it. Then they brought the king’s family back over with them. They were ready to do anything he wanted them to do.
Shimei, the son of Gera, had also gone across the Jordan. When he did, he fell down flat with his face toward the ground in front of the king. 19He said to him, “You are my king and master. Please don’t hold me guilty. Please forgive me for the wrong things I did on the day you left Jerusalem. Please forget all about them. 20I know I’ve sinned. But today I’ve come down here to welcome you. I’m the first member of Joseph’s whole family to do it.”
21Then Abishai, the son of Zeruiah, said, “Shouldn’t Shimei be put to death for what he did? He cursed you. And you are the Lord’s anointed king.”
22But David replied, “You and Joab are sons of Zeruiah. What does this have to do with you? What right do you have to interfere? Should anyone be put to death in Israel today? Don’t I know that today I am king over Israel again?” 23So the king made a promise to Shimei. He said to him, “You aren’t going to be put to death.”
24Mephibosheth was Saul’s grandson. He had also gone down to welcome the king back. He had not taken care of his feet. He hadn’t trimmed his mustache or washed his clothes. He hadn’t done any of those things from the day the king left Jerusalem until the day he returned safely. 25He came from Jerusalem to welcome the king. The king asked him, “Mephibosheth, why didn’t you go with me?”
26He said, “You are my king and master. I’m not able to walk. So I thought, ‘I’ll have a saddle put on my donkey. I’ll ride on it. Then I can go with the king.’ But my servant Ziba turned against me. 27He has told you lies about me. King David, you are like an angel of God. So do what you wish. 28You should have put all the members of my grandfather’s family to death, including me. Instead, you always provided what I needed. So what right do I have to make any more appeals to you?”
29The king said to him, “You don’t have to say anything else. I order you and Ziba to divide up Saul’s land between you.”
30Mephibosheth said to the king, “I’m happy that you have returned home safely. So just let Ziba have everything.”
31Barzillai had also come down to go across the Jordan River with the king. He wanted to send the king on his way from there. Barzillai was from Rogelim in the land of Gilead. 32He was very old. He was 80 years old. He had given the king everything he needed while the king was staying in Mahanaim. That’s because Barzillai was very wealthy. 33The king said to Barzillai, “Come across the river with me. Stay with me in Jerusalem. I’ll take good care of you.”
34But Barzillai said to the king, “I won’t live for many more years. So why should I go up to Jerusalem with you? 35I’m already 80 years old. I can hardly tell the difference between what is enjoyable and what isn’t. I can hardly taste what I eat and drink. I can’t even hear the voices of male and female singers anymore. So why should I add my problems to yours? 36I’ll go across the Jordan River with you for a little way. Why should you reward me by taking care of me? 37Let me go back home. Then I can die in my own town. I can be buried there in the tomb of my father and mother. But let Kimham take my place. Let him go across the river with you. Do for him whatever you wish.”
38The king said, “Kimham will go across with me. I’ll do for him whatever you wish. And I’ll do for you anything you wish.”
39So all the people went across the Jordan River. Then the king crossed over. The king kissed Barzillai and said goodbye to him. And Barzillai went back home.
40After the king had gone across the river, he went to Gilgal. Kimham had gone across with him. All the troops of Judah and half of the troops of Israel had taken the king across.
41Soon all the men of Israel were coming to the king. They were saying to him, “Why did the men of Judah take you away from us? They are our relatives. What right did they have to bring you and your family across the Jordan River? What right did they have to bring all your men over with you?”
42All the men of Judah answered the men of Israel. They said, “We did that because the king is our close relative. So why should you be angry about what happened? Have we eaten any of the king’s food? Have we taken anything for ourselves?”
43Then the men of Israel answered the men of Judah. They said, “We have ten of the 12 tribes in the kingdom. So we have a stronger claim on David than you have. Why then are you acting as if you hate us? Weren’t we the first ones to talk about bringing back our king?”
But the men of Judah argued their side even more forcefully than the men of Israel.
